The Pillar of Good Society

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As we look up our present society, we are living in the advancement of science and technology, lifting - up our standard of living. The advancement of transportation and communication lead us to a rapid development were people can freely move conveniently.
However, at the same time, we experience the bloody conflict of the war, many people died in the past century and continuously war is going on, anywhere in the world we face this pandemic of covid virus and continuously develop to a high breed of virus. 

Moreover, poverty, family breakdowns, sexual transmitted diseases, drug abuse, crime, juvenile violence and many kinds of problem is coming out and lingering in our society. Yet, this entire problem has only a temporary solution. Let’s try to reflect and understand the causes of problem from the basic unit of our society which is the family.

According to Noah Webster wrote in 1970: “Educations in great measure, forms the moral character of men, and moral are the basis of government….It is much easier to introduce and established an effectual penal status the ill effects of a bad system…. The only practicable method to reform mankind is to begin with children.”

Our children are growing up starts in the family. According from the universal values of child education starts already from the time that  mother conceive the baby until it give birth where the emotion, psychological, thoughts and action of parents have big influence in the growth of baby in the womb.

Especially the bonding of mother in rearing the baby while still inside the womb has a big influence in the development hearing sounds of mother’s body, recognizing the language sounds, memory development, and eyesight development. If we want that our children become great children, start the education during the pregnancy.

If we want to learn more about this information can easily search it in the books, magazine, internet and anywhere whatever information we want because of the advancement of information technology.

From the birth to 12 years old is the period where children character and personality are not stable or in immature stage that needs to nurture that become stable until the period of adolescence.
I inspired with this article “The Child 10 Commandments” written by Written by Dr. Kevin Leman

1.   My hands are small; please don't expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture or throw a ball.  My legs are short; please slow down so that I can catch up with you.
2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have; please let me explore safely.  Don't restrict me unnecessarily.
3. Housework will always be there.  I'm little for only a short time - please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world, and do so willingly.
4. My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my needs.  Don't nag me all day long.  (You wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness.)  Treat me as you would like to be treated.
5. I am a special gift from God; please treasure me as God intended you to do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner.
6. I need your encouragement to grow.  Please go easy on the criticism; remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.
7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself.  Permit me to fail so that I can learn from my mistakes.  Then someday I'll be prepared to make the kind of decisions life requires of me.
8. Please don't do things over for me.  Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations.  I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me with my brothers and sisters.
9. Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together.  Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids.  Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special.
10. Please take me to Sunday school and church regularly, setting a good example for me to follow.  I enjoy learning more about God.

And there is lot of information like this anywhere in the internet, library and bookstore.

When our children growing up properly, emotionally and psychologically stable, mental and physical stability in their adolescence period. The moral and ethical values of the youth maturely develop. We can assure they can be good citizens in our society.

The youth that grow up in the family environment with outstanding moral and ethical values can expand it to be social ethics, business ethics, national ethics and world ethics. We can understand that all moral and ethical laws or values are the expansion of values from the family.

Then religious groups will cultivate and building –up the highest standard of morals and ethics. And the school will properly convey this morals and ethics to all men and women in the world.

It will be the basis of system management and laws in governing the nation, the basis of diplomacy of one nation to another nation and the basis to establish peace and order of the world.

We could have a good system management of environment, fair distribution of wealth, fair sharing of science and technology for every nations of the world, solving the problems of poverty, hunger, malnutrition, crime and any problem that arises in our society.

Also, if we established the highest standards of world ethics, relationship of nation to another nation, we can avoid the global pandemic of corona virus disease that was discovered last December 2019. As well as, we can be able properly manage the environment which we can avoid the worst disasters and calamities which the world experience at this present situation of weather condition.
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This pandemic virus, calamities and disaster, the war in any part of the world, and different kind of world suffering is an opening eye for humanity that we need to care, extend our love, and live for the sake of others that will start from us as individual, expanding it in our family, neighbors, society, nation and the world.